Love is not a destination.
Love is a state of being.
Love is a way of knowing yourself first, with all the qualities and uniqueness you arrived with.
This state of being is an awakened state to your heart.
It also includes your connection to others you love.
When you know the state of being of love you intuitively know what and who is right for your world.
You may have forgotten the elements of this but they are never lost.
Open the door to love through these steps:
1 Offer yourself loving kindness.
2 Offer others loving kindness
3 Accept what is without trying to change it.
4 Acknowledge others for who they are and let your love shine in their presence.
This is who you are.